luciferspit:

it’s weird because when I think about myself, I’m not a girl, not at all. But when I come to think about my parents, I still wanna be their little girl and not change because it’ll upset them.. is it normal

i felt similar, not the exact way you explained it, more like;

i wish i wasn’t trans and that i could just be a girl because it would just make everything so much easier. i know that being who i am, my being a man and wanting to transition was hurting my parents. they were worried and scared that i will be making a huge mistake in my life. so yes. i wish i could be a girl and just be happy as a girl and save all the heartache of them losing a daughter.

boykayden:

So my girl is freaking out that I should be starting t in the next few months.
I am really exited and wanna talk about it.
But she just goes all quiet when I talk about it. She is scared I’m gonna change too much. She says she likes me just the way I am.

How can i show her that I I’m not gonna change that much?
That I’m still gonna be me!

explain to her that it is not an overnight thing that you start to get the effects of HRT. it will take time. and to be honest you will change, not necessarily because of T but because of time. hell, she will change too. that’s what life if all about. if she’s with you the whole journey, she will grow and change with you and you guys don’t need to worry about leaving someone behind! that;s just my opinion. hope this helped even a little bit.

peter-repeater:

So I’m not sure if any of my followers are from Melbourne - but just in case, there is a new support group starting up for transgender men. It’s not a counselling service and it’s not political, but if you want to simply meet and chat to guys in a similar situation you can. I’ve been to a similar meeting up here in Sydney and it was fantastic.

The first meeting will be held on June 23rd. For more information though please email ftmshed(@)gmail.com.

for the guys in melbourne who are interested, here you go!

The home of trans* identified athletes.

Trans* jock is a new site for and by trans* people who workout.  We have forums set up to discuss issues that face trans* identified athletes and hope to serve trans* people throughout their life working out.

 

If you are a collegiate athlete there is a special forum for you.  We also have FTM, MTF and GenderQueer forums to discuss issues you face in the gym.

 

You do not have to be part of an organized team or sport, just working out and trans* identified.

welp, drinking a mug of coffee at this hour was a huge mistake.

akitaboy:

Hey guys, so i’ve noticed alot of people hunting for uncut packers because not everyone likes cut cocks — myself included. But they’re all hundreds of dollars that a majority of us just don’t have. So what if a cheaper option was available? What if it wasn’t mass produced and actually made by a…

i was literally going to make a post about uncut packers and then i came across this! i would be very interested, and $30-$50 is amazingly cheap compared to ones i was looking at.

hannimalcollective:

So hey, am I the only one who gets kind of really annoyed when lesbians who think androgyny is “so hot” go so far as to actively try to date FTMs?

Yeah okay, I understand falling in love with a person before their gender and not staying confined to your label. Totally.
That’s how it should be. The lesbians I’m talking about, though, are the ones who are obviously strictly into women sexually and talk about gender identity as if it’s some kind of stylistic choice.

I mean, I’m not trans, and I’ll never fully know what it’s like to be trans, but from what I’ve gathered, being FTM isn’t exactly the easiest thing to go through. Dysphoria sounds like a living hell and transitioning is a painful and lengthy experience for most that ends in suicide a good 40% of the time. If I were trans, I’m pretty sure I’d feel totally disrespected if someone, let alone the person I’m dating, treated my quest to be at peace with my body as some kind of cute accessory.

I had a crush on this girl once. Well, he was introduced to me as a girl, and I was attracted to him as a girl, but it was later revealed to me that he in fact had just begun to identify as male. Immediately I backed off and decided to be his friend instead. Not out of disgust, but because, well… I’m a lesbian. I like girls. I like girls who like that they’re girls. I like tits and curves, vaginas and sweet, sultry lady-voices. All of these are things this guy has but doesn’t want; things that make him hate himself and that he wants to be rid of as soon as possible. Could you even imagine how tremendously unfair of me that would be, to try to date someone when I’m attracted to the very parts of them that prevent them from being themselves? Fuck that.

peter-repeater:

Australian post-transition gents, all of whom look AMAZING. It’s this sort of thing that helps me when I’m thinking about the future…

jameson-anthony:

Above are 3 binders that I no longer have need for and would like to donate to someone who cannot afford a new one. I had 5 but one is missing and one is too beat up so it’s garbage. Two of the binders shown above were only worn a handful of times. Those are the t-shirt style, and the muscle shirt style. The other was worn more often, but only bought 3 months ago. They were all purchased from http://ftm.underworks.com 

Style 974 - Medium

Style 998 - Medium

Style 997 - Small

Keep in mind buying a new binder is always a better option than going second hand, unless of course you cannot afford to buy a new one. I just know a lot of trans guys can’t afford them, and it would feel like a waste for me to just chuck them in the garbage. 

Send me an ask if you’re interested in one or have any questions.